District of Columbia Attachment B - Required Information for Custody

Be willing to work with the child's other parent. See your children whenever possible. Don't involve your children in the court case. Don't put the children in the middle. Perception is everything. Hire an experienced child custody lawyer.

Write clearly, and use your own words. Use bulleted lists for your major points. Don't insult or bash your ex. Attach evidence such as pay stubs or bank statements, but redact SSN and account numbers. Affirm that you are making your statement under oath, and under penalty of perjury.

A parenting time schedule. Information about how the parents will make decisions for the child. Information about finances and expenses. Parenting provisions (rules about raising the child) Any other information you want to include.

To respond to the issues raised in the Request for Order (form FL-300) and accompanying papers, the responding party must complete, file, and have a Responsive Declaration to Request for Order (form FL-320) served on all parties in the case.

Tell the Truth. A declaration is a written statement made under penalty of perjury. Know Your Audience. Organize for Effect. Be Specific. Stay Relevant. Don't Argue With the Opposing Side. Write Naturally; Make It Easy to Read. Put Emotion Aside.

Legal declarations by definition need to be truthful and accurate to the best of your knowledge. This means it is a good idea to back up any statements you make with documented evidence. Be specific, as declarations are usually about facts. Sign the letter to make it legally binding.

A declaration of custody. The division of parental authority and decision-making abilities. A child visitation schedule. Methods for reviewing and modifying the custody agreement. A method of dispute resolution. Any additional provisions you would like to include.

A history of child abuse. A history of substance abuse. A history of domestic violence. The parent's ability to make age-appropriate decisions for a child. The parent's ability to communicate with a child. Psychiatric concerns. The parent's living conditions. The child's opinion.

Fill out your court forms. Have your forms reviewed. Make at least 2 copies of all your forms. File your forms with the court clerk. Serve your papers on the other parent. File your Proof of Service. Go to your court hearing.