How to prove the best interest of the child Keep a log of child-related expenses. Get reliable child care. Ask others to testify on your behalf. Show that you're willing to work with the other parent. Know your child's interests. Have a safe place for your child to live. Behave in court.
One of the most effective ways to strengthen your case is to provide concrete evidence of your role as a caregiver. Document your involvement in your child's life by keeping detailed records of things like doctor's appointments, school activities, extracurricular engagements, and any other significant events.
Personal records A proposed visitation schedule showing when you'd like to exchange the child. If you already have a schedule, a list of missed or denied parenting time. An expense report showing you contribute financially to your child's needs. Printouts of texts, emails and other messages with your co-parent.
The inability of parents to consistently control their emotions, and avoid emotional decision making, is the most common mistake we see in child custody cases. The reason: it is such an easy mistake to make, and so pervasive in all aspects of the case.
Mothers historically have won more custody battles due to traditional roles and perceptions of mothers as the primary caregivers.
Virginia Code § 20-124.3 instructs the court to consider the child's “reasonable preference” as to custody and visitation, “if the court deems the child to be of reasonable intelligence, understanding, age and experience.” Whether the court will consider the child's preference, and if so how much weight the court will ...
Usually, both parents of a child have equal rights to physical and legal custody of a child. Virginia law gives no preference to either parent, but requires regular contact of the child with both parents (when appropriate). Know: This is NOT true for a parent with a history of violence or abuse against a family member.
An unstable parent often exhibits mental health issues, substance abuse, erratic behavior, inability to meet children's basic needs, and financial or legal troubles, affecting their capacity to provide a stable environment for their child.
The best arrangement for a child is to have both parents living under the same roof. But barring that, joint custody is best. Half and half living arrangements. The child shouldn't lose one parent. It will screw them up for life. From one who knows.
Usually, both parents of a child have equal rights to physical and legal custody of a child. Virginia law gives no preference to either parent, but requires regular contact of the child with both parents (when appropriate). Know: This is NOT true for a parent with a history of violence or abuse against a family member.