Elder Abuse can take many forms including physical abuse; verbal, emotional or psychological abuse; financial abuse and exploitation; sexual abuse; or caregiver neglect.
As of 2015, people living in Pennsylvania who are 18 or older can sign a POA authorizing a person to act for them. The law also requires two witnesses and a notary public to sign the POA. A health care POA may not require two witnesses and a notary public to sign it, but it may be recommended.
A POA must be signed before it's needed since it cannot be signed by someone who is mentally incompetent. You can't set up a POA for your parent as it's something they must choose for themselves.
If there are mental limitations, the process is fairly straightforward. You take her to see a doctor (if she doesn't have a long-time GP, a gerontologist or psychiatrist is advisable), and have the doctor fill out an evaluation form.
They sleep a lot - both NIGHT and DAY. They withdraw from family and when someone talks to them the elderly person seems distant and disinterested - not engaging in conversation. They tend to eat LESS and LESS as death approaches. They lose control of their bladder and bowels as their body muscles begin to relax.
If you become concerned, go over and knock on the door. Listen and offer your support. Get help from Adult Protective Services if you are concerned an adult may be self-neglecting. Call 911 if the person needs immediate medical attention or is in danger of immediate harm.
10 Steps to Take When Your Aging Parents Can No Longer Take Care of Themselves Talk to your parents about your concerns. Find out your parents' wishes. Assess your parents' needs. Evaluate your caregiving capabilities. Decide if you need professional help. Explore elderly care options. Choose an elderly care provider.
If your loved one absolutely refuses assisted living but is in danger, you may need to get outside support. An elder care lawyer can help you review your options, advise you about seeking guardianship, or even refer you to a geriatric social worker who can help. Your loved one may be angry and hurt.