So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. 1) Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. 2) Take responsibility. 3) Communicate. 4) Be kind. 5) Go to church somewhere. Love like Jesus.
Communicate Personally and Respectfully Before you write a resignation letter, it's important to communicate your decision personally and respectfully to the leader or pastor you report to. Explain your reasons honestly but kindly, emphasizing that this decision is about what's best for both you and the church.
Let your pastor know the main reasons you are leaving, but do so with humility, love and grace. Be wise and thoughtful about this. Be sure to let your pastor know some of the things you are thankful for regarding your time at your church. I'm sure there are plenty of things you are thankful for.
Write a Formal Resignation Letter This letter should reiterate your reasons for leaving and express your gratitude for the opportunity to serve. It's a professional courtesy that also serves as a documented notice of your decision. Remember to keep the tone positive and gracious.
Set up a time to talk directly to one of the pastors of your church about your leaving. This is a key step in leaving a church well. You don't need to share all of your reasons or rationale, but as a matter of love and courtesy, let your pastor know you and your family have chosen to go to another church.
So, here are a few thoughts about how to leave a church well, with one bonus thought at the end. 1) Pray about it. Sometimes people leave their church for the right reasons, and sometimes not. 2) Take responsibility. 3) Communicate. 4) Be kind. 5) Go to church somewhere. Love like Jesus.
HOW TO LEAVE WELL Say farewell. If possible—and this is not always the case—say goodbye to those you know. Don't lead an exodus. Leaving a church and finding a new one can be exciting, particularly after a long struggle. Discuss your transition with the new pastor(s).
What to include in your church resignation letter Appropriate salutation. Statement stating your intent to resign. Date of your intended resignation. Reason(s) behind your resignation. Expression of gratitude. Offer of assistance during transition. Sign off.
Dear Supervisor's Name, I am writing to inform you that I have decided to resign from my position as Job Title at Company Name. My last day of work will be Date. I want to take this opportunity to thank you and the entire team for the valuable experience and support provided during my time at Company Name.