(Put one parent's name in each column and fill out when the children will be with that parent for holidays and school breaks.) Page 8. Washington Forms Online is a program that helps people fill out family law forms online.Use this form to ask for a Parenting Plan, Residential Schedule or Child Support Order only if parentage has already been established by:. The plan ends the second your daughter turns 18. At age 18 your daughter is an adult and neither parent can legally make her do anything. The Virginia Judicial System has a number of forms for each court available on the court's form page. The penalty could be a slap on the wrist, a fine, reduced custody, or jail. If the other parent failed to receive the children, there was no penalty for him. Unfortunately, there is no real answer to this question. Legally you could pursue a contempt action against your ex-wife for not following the parenting plan.