To request a modification of a court order, you will likely need to show that there has been a substantial change in circumstances that has happened since the order was issued. You will need to go back to the court where your order was issued and file modification forms.
One thing you should know from the very beginning is that requesting a modification is not an easy or fast process. Part of the reason modification requests can be difficult is because North Carolina requires all custody disputes to go through mediation. This is the first option for resolving the dispute.
Modification via Mediation Alternative dispute resolution (ADR) is a popular avenue for parents trying to arrange or modify custody agreements in California. Through ADR, you could achieve an official, legal custody modification without going to court. ADR is not a custody trial.
If either party is interested in changing the parenting agreement after it is signed by the parties and Judge, a motion must be filed. It is the responsibility of the party filing the motion to have the other party served with the modification.
To modify the order, you must show the judge there is an issue that cannot wait to be resolved at trial. These matters include such issues as child endangerment or a parent violating the terms of the order. To modify temporary custody orders, you will need to include your reasoning for filing a motion to modify.
North Carolina courts have held that the following may be grounds that meet the Substantial Change of Circumstances test: Violation of a Court Order. The Child's Present or Future Well-being. The Personality, Conduct or Character of Either Parent.
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