While there is a possibility that your husband is making an intentional withdrawal, perhaps his lack of attention is due to one of the following reasons: He is stressed or facing pressure over something at work. You are having financial difficulties he is worried about.
“It could be that your partner is losing interest and doesn't know how to communicate that with you," says marriage and family therapist Lynsie Seely. Rather than jumping to conclusions, have a conversation with your partner and ask them what's been on their mind and the reasons for their apparent loss of interest.
To reignite attraction towards your husband, try to rediscover common interests, engage in new activities together, communicate openly about desires and needs, and prioritize quality time alone. By focusing on emotional connections and shared experiences, you can strengthen the bond with your husband.
You try to do special things, plan nice dinners and outings he will enjoy, perhaps buy him small gifts or do little special things for him around the house, hoping and waiting for him to come around and notice how great you are.