Dear [Spouse's Name], I hope this letter finds you well. In regard to our ongoing divorce proceedings in the state of New Hampshire, I would like to address the matter of filing a responsive pleading. Due to unforeseen circumstances, I am unable to meet the current deadline for submitting my response. As you may be aware, a responsive pleading is a legal document that allows me to respond to the divorce complaint you filed. It is an important step in the divorce process as it provides an opportunity for me to present my side of the story and raise any relevant issues or counterclaims. It is essential that I have adequate time to gather all necessary information and consult with my lawyer before filing a comprehensive responsive pleading. Understanding the significance of these proceedings, I am hereby requesting an extension to file my responsive pleading. I believe that an additional [insert number of days/months] would be sufficient for me to adequately prepare and respond to the divorce complaint. This extension will allow me to compile all necessary documentation, consult with legal representatives, and ensure that my responsive pleading is accurate and complete. I kindly ask for your cooperation and understanding in granting me this extension, as it will enable us to proceed with the divorce process in a fair and just manner. I believe that this extension will promote an atmosphere of mutual respect and will allow us to address the issues at hand with the seriousness and thoughtfulness they deserve. Please let me know your decision regarding this extension request at your earliest convenience. I will be more than willing to cooperate and reach a mutually beneficial agreement to ensure that the divorce proceedings proceed smoothly and efficiently. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation. Sincerely, [Your Name]