While you can propose rule changes through proper channels, there's no legal way to simply ignore or “get around” the HOA's covenants, conditions, and restrictions (CC&Rs) that you agreed to when purchasing in the community.
Choose a Non-HOA Community: The most straightforward way to avoid HOA fees is to buy a home in a neighborhood that does not have an HOA. Negotiate with the HOA: If you already live in an HOA community, you could try negotiating with the board to reduce your fees or request exemptions based on your circumstances.