The inability of parents to consistently control their emotions, and avoid emotional decision making, is the most common mistake we see in child custody cases. The reason: it is such an easy mistake to make, and so pervasive in all aspects of the case.
What To Include in a Child Custody Declaration Letter Details about the parent writing the letter, including their relationship to the child. A description of the existing custody and visitation arrangement, if applicable. Explanation of why the parent is seeking a change to the custody agreement or child support order.
Personal records A proposed visitation schedule showing when you'd like to exchange the child. If you already have a schedule, a list of missed or denied parenting time. An expense report showing you contribute financially to your child's needs. Printouts of texts, emails and other messages with your co-parent.
The general parts of a parenting agreement are: A parenting time schedule. Information about how the parents will make decisions for the child. Information about finances and expenses. Parenting provisions (rules about raising the child) Any other information you want to include.
An unstable parent often exhibits mental health issues, substance abuse, erratic behavior, inability to meet children's basic needs, and financial or legal troubles, affecting their capacity to provide a stable environment for their child.
The best arrangement for a child is to have both parents living under the same roof. But barring that, joint custody is best. Half and half living arrangements. The child shouldn't lose one parent. It will screw them up for life. From one who knows.
One of the most effective ways to strengthen your case is to provide concrete evidence of your role as a caregiver. Document your involvement in your child's life by keeping detailed records of things like doctor's appointments, school activities, extracurricular engagements, and any other significant events.
Mothers historically have won more custody battles due to traditional roles and perceptions of mothers as the primary caregivers.
Mothers historically have won more custody battles due to traditional roles and perceptions of mothers as the primary caregivers.
Provide Child's Information: Include the child's full name, date of birth, and current living situation. Specify any significant details about the child's background. Outline Custody Preferences: Explain your desired custody arrangements, whether physical, legal, or both. State the reasons for these preferences.