Second, libel is actionable per se (i.e. without proof of damage) whereas slander, subject to exceptions (see below), is actionable only upon proof of 'special' damage (actual damage is probably a less misleading and therefore better phrase to use though)
Stay Calm : Don't react impulsively. Gather Information : Understand the details of the gossip or slander. Maintain Professionalism : Keep your composure and avoid retaliating. Address the Source : If appropriate, consider speaking directly to the person spreading the rumors.
Generally, to prove defamation, you must show that a false statement was made, about you, to third parties, and which caused you damage. Once you have evaluated your case, and determined that you can satisfy these elements, you can then proceed with pursuing your matter.
The most common defenses to defamation are: 1) truth; 2) consent; 3) privilege; and 4) the statute of limitations. Perhaps the most distinct aspect of the defamation cause of action is that falsity is required. In other words, the statement publicized about the plaintiff must be false in order to prove defamation.
Slander can be hard to prove, as the complainant must show the slanderer was driven by malice and knew their claims were false. Slander is different from libel, which are false statements made through print or broadcast.
In cases involving public figures or matters of public concern, the burden is on you to prove falsity. In cases involving matters of purely private concern, the burden of proving the truth is on the defendant. A defendant does not have to show the literal truth of every word in an alleged defamatory statement.