Ing to The Knot, which is a popular wedding planning website, you should be spending anywhere from $75-$100 on a wedding gift for a co-worker, distant friend, or even acquaintance. For close friends and family, a wedding gift should be anywhere from $100-$125.
It is rude to put any preference or request for gifts on the invitation. The way you can let your preference be known, without asking for a gift, is to list what you want on a registry. Many couples have a wedding website, and under registry, politely state you have all the household goods you need.
Be Direct but Polite: You can express your desire for a gift in a straightforward manner while maintaining politeness. For example, ``I've been thinking about (specific item) and would love it for (occasion).'' Use Context: If there's a specific occasion, like a birthday or holiday, you can mention that.
The total value of gifts the individual gave to at least one person (other than his or her spouse) is more than the annual exclusion amount for the year. The annual exclusion amount for 2025 is $19,000 and for 2024 is $18,000.