In every state in the US, you do not need to obtain permission from your spouse to obtain a civil divorce. The judge will sign the final paper, making the parties single, whether one party likes it or not. The process is to file, serve, litigate any issues (other than actual divorce), and get a judgment of divorce.
You are eligible to file for divorce, also called an “absolute divorce,” only after being separated for at least a year and a day. This means that you must have been living in different homes and that at least one of you intended that the separation be permanent during that time.
Stay calm. Talk to your spouse. Try to understand what made your spouse come to this decision. Talk about how you will pace yourselves as you move toward divorce. Consider nesting for a period of time if you have children. Discuss a non-adversarial process. Accept and let go.
Yes, you can file without your husband's knowledge and consent. You have a constitutional right to marry whomever you like, with some narrow exceptions (eg some minors, some people you are related to, same sex persons in some states, etc.). You have about the same right to divorce, pretty much at will.
In every state in the US, you do not need to obtain permission from your spouse to obtain a civil divorce. The judge will sign the final paper, making the parties single, whether one party likes it or not. The process is to file, serve, litigate any issues (other than actual divorce), and get a judgment of divorce.
Oklahoma allows Pro Se petitioners and defendants, that is, parties who choose to be self-represented. Parties who file for uncontested divorces may also do so without a lawyer. Divorce cases that can be resolved without a trial also do not require the services of a divorce attorney.
If one spouse doesn't wish to divorce, they may become contentious on multiple issues in order to prolong the process. The court requires divorcing spouses with contentious issues to attend mediation sessions to attempt to resolve their dissension with professional help.
How do we get divorced? One spouse or the other must have resided in North Carolina for at least six months and the parties must have been separated for at least one year with the separation intended to be permanent. When those two requirements have been met, either party may file for an absolute divorce.