REQUEST TO FORGIVE SUPPORT ARREARS. Instructions. There is not a standard form for this, you will either need to draft it yourself or have an attorney draft one, along with the order.If the parents agree to a lump sum settlement for arrears owed to the family, DCS has a forgiveness of arrears form, which the parties can sign. Most child support forms are available in several languages. The Debt Reduction Program provides eligible parents with past-due child support payments the opportunity to reduce the amount they owe to the government. Please go to the Child Support Help Topics page to learn more about what forms you may need and find other resources related to this topic. The majority of states charge interest on past due child support, called arrears. Welcome to the Minnesota Merit System's job application center! Income of one or both parents has changed; A child included in the order is in the custody of the Oregon Youth Authority. 03 (Support From Non-Custodial Parents).