Here are some Don'ts: Don't argue. Don't confront. Don't remind them they forget. Don't question recent memory.
Three of the most common types of behavioral triggers in dementia patients are confusion, pain or discomfort, and a changing or overwhelming environment.
A durable power of attorney for finances names someone who will make financial decisions for you when you are not able. A living trust names and instructs someone, called the trustee, to hold and distribute property and funds on your behalf when you are no longer able to manage your affairs.
Alzheimer's disease – around eight to 10 years. Life expectancy is less if the person is diagnosed in their 80s or 90s. A few people with Alzheimer's live for longer, sometimes for 15 or even 20 years.
You will have to petition the court to become their guardian. You should get a statement from their health care provider saying they are not competent to make financial or healthcare decisions. Then go to the courthouse and request guardianship for the person.
The person with dementia is no longer managing at home as well as they used to. For example, they are no longer able to do daily tasks, like eating, without the support of another person. The person is no longer safe at home. For example, they keep having falls.
Antidepressants such as sertraline, citalopram, mirtazapine and trazodone are widely prescribed for people with dementia who develop changes in mood and behaviour. There is some evidence that they may help to reduce agitation – particularly citalopram.
Agree with them or distract them to a different subject or activity. Accept the blame when something's wrong (even if it's fantasy.) Leave the room, if necessary, to avoid confrontations. Respond to the feelings rather than the words. Be patient and cheerful and reassuring. Do go with the flow.