If you have no children under 21 and your marriage has been over for 6 months or more, you can use the DIY Uncontested Divorce Program to make your papers. If you have children under 21, use the paper Uncontested Divorce Packet.
Yes, you can file without your husband's knowledge and consent. You have a constitutional right to marry whomever you like, with some narrow exceptions (eg some minors, some people you are related to, same sex persons in some states, etc.). You have about the same right to divorce, pretty much at will.
Stay calm. Talk to your spouse. Try to understand what made your spouse come to this decision. Talk about how you will pace yourselves as you move toward divorce. Consider nesting for a period of time if you have children. Discuss a non-adversarial process. Accept and let go.
If one spouse doesn't wish to divorce, they may become contentious on multiple issues in order to prolong the process. The court requires divorcing spouses with contentious issues to attend mediation sessions to attempt to resolve their dissension with professional help.
STEP 1: Filing A divorce case is started when a "Summons With Notice" or "Summons and Complaint" are filed with the County Clerk's Office.
In every state in the US, you do not need to obtain permission from your spouse to obtain a civil divorce. The judge will sign the final paper, making the parties single, whether one party likes it or not. The process is to file, serve, litigate any issues (other than actual divorce), and get a judgment of divorce.
In every state in the US, you do not need to obtain permission from your spouse to obtain a civil divorce. The judge will sign the final paper, making the parties single, whether one party likes it or not. The process is to file, serve, litigate any issues (other than actual divorce), and get a judgment of divorce.
Some uncontested divorces are resolved as quickly as six weeks, while others can take six months or more. Since New York does not have a waiting period, a divorce that both parties agree on takes roughly 3 months for the papers to be filed with the court.
Go to: . You may be able to find the index number. Then you need to go to the court that issued the divorce and get a certified copy.
 
                    