In short, yes, you can get divorced without going to court in California if your case is uncontested. An uncontested case means that both parties agree on all significant issues, such as property division, custody, and child support.
An uncontested divorce is, unsurprisingly, a much faster process.
While there is no required separation period in the state of California, there is a six month waiting period. This means that you can file for divorce on the day you decide you want one, but you must wait six months for the divorce to be finalized by a judge.
The judge can grant a divorce while some issues are still in dispute, so the amount of time to change your mind is until the judge grants the divorce. Once the divorce order is entered, the divorce is finalized. The court cannot generally go back and un-grant the divorce because a spouse changes their mind.
How to File for Divorce in Alameda County? Obtain and fill out required family law forms, both mandatory and case-specific. File the dated and signed documents with the county clerk. Ask an adult individual unrelated to the case or a professional server to complete the process of service.
The judge can grant a divorce while some issues are still in dispute, so the amount of time to change your mind is until the judge grants the divorce. Once the divorce order is entered, the divorce is finalized. The court cannot generally go back and un-grant the divorce because a spouse changes their mind.
Get to know yourself again Be patient and gentle with yourself. Moving through all the emotional layers of divorce takes a bit of time. Try out new things, Devote yourself to a new project or goal Connect with the friends who uplift you Find ways to meet other divorced or single friends Expand your support circle
Take care of yourself emotionally and physically. Take time out to exercise, eat well and relax. Keep to your normal routines as much as possible. Try to avoid making major decisions or changes in life plans. Don't use alcohol, drugs or cigarettes as a way to cope; they only lead to more problems.
If divorce proceedings have already been issued and the Petition served on the other party (“the Respondent”) then it is still possible to amend the fact upon which the Petition is based, but the Petition will need to be amended in the manner required by the Court, re-issued at Court and re-served on the Respondent.