ENGAGEMENT PARTY The groom's father will give a toast following the father of the bride. After these first two toasts, the floor is open to anyone, but usually the best man and maid (or matron) of honor, if already chosen, are next. Then, other family members and friends can follow.
Unlike a wedding speech, which could be as long as 10 minutes (or more, depending on the speaker) an engagement party speech is usually far shorter. Generally, you wouldn't want to speak for more than a couple of minutes so you can save most of what you have to say for the wedding itself.
Set a start and end time, so engagement party guests know when to arrive and depart, typically a two to four-hour window.
ENGAGEMENT PARTY The groom's father will give a toast following the father of the bride. After these first two toasts, the floor is open to anyone, but usually the best man and maid (or matron) of honor, if already chosen, are next. Then, other family members and friends can follow.
Typically, the parents of the couple or perhaps even other family members - such as siblings - may give speeches.
Short and sweet is the name of the game here: Both Lovelace and Franklin agree that an engagement party speech should be no longer than two minutes.
We suggest you avoid long stories and stick to the key points that are: Thanking people for coming and their love / generosity / warmth. Mentioning anyone who has made this possible. Explain how happy it has made you. And illustrate why – your wonderful husband / wife. Try not to make this too slushy. Raise a toast.
Typically, the parents of the couple or perhaps even other family members - such as siblings - may give speeches. And since it's your event, you might like to say a few words, expressing your gratitude and excitement.
Tell your daughter how proud she makes you. Express how much you love her and how excited you are for her big day. Remind her that you'll always be there for her, whatever life sends her way. Warmly welcome her partner into the family.
Introduce yourself and how you know the couple. Congratulate the couple and how excited and happy you are for them. Share something personal, such as an anecdote. This is a great opportunity to be funny, but keep things as positive as you can.