Unusual activity in a person's bank accounts, including large, frequent or unexplained withdrawals. ATM withdrawals by an older person who has never used a debit or ATM card. Withdrawals from bank accounts or transfers between accounts your loved one cannot explain.
Call the Texas Abuse Hotline at (800) 252-5400 if: You believe your situation requires action in less than 24 hours. You prefer to remain anonymous.
You need hard evidence to prove that the suspect exploited the senior financially. This could include bank statements, copies of processed checks, or copies of legal documents.
Yes, most states allow people to remain anonymous when reporting elder abuse to Adult Protective Services and emergency services.
If they don't find an imminent threat the investigation will continue depending on what you're actually reporting. If you have credible and demonstrable reports of financial abuse then they'll reach out to financial institutions directly.
Most experts would suggest a family meeting, and I agree. Such a gathering gives the hands-on caregiver the opportunity to clarify the parents' needs and explain all they do. It also gives the siblings a chance to learn about the situation, participate in care decisions and brainstorm how they can pitch in.
You need to call Adult Protective Services. Don't assume what they will or will not do. It's your legal obligation to report this matter to them. Then IF they do nothing, you can at least say you did what you were supposed to do but sitting around pondering whether they will or will not do anything is negligent.
If you become concerned, go over and knock on the door. Listen and offer your support. Get help from Adult Protective Services if you are concerned an adult may be self-neglecting. Call 911 if the person needs immediate medical attention or is in danger of immediate harm.
What Can You Do if a Family Member Is Taking Advantage of Elderly Parents? Get legal advice. The first step is to know your rights. Collect documentation. Have a family meeting. Consider durable or financial power of attorney. Consider medical power of attorney. Petition for guardianship.