It is rude to put any preference or request for gifts on the invitation. The way you can let your preference be known, without asking for a gift, is to list what you want on a registry. Many couples have a wedding website, and under registry, politely state you have all the household goods you need.
Be Direct but Polite: You can express your desire for a gift in a straightforward manner while maintaining politeness. For example, ``I've been thinking about (specific item) and would love it for (occasion).'' Use Context: If there's a specific occasion, like a birthday or holiday, you can mention that.
While the amount you should gift a couple depends on a number of factors, the latest available data from The Knot reveals that U.S. wedding guests spent an average of $160 on a gift in 2021. Adjust that for inflation and you're looking at about $187 in 2023. "It's common to give anywhere from $100 to $1,000.
Use ``or'' - if you use ``and'' both people have to sign it for it to be deposited. Not only is it easier on the couple but, that way, if you do get the bride's last name wrong because of name changing issues, it won't matter. Groom can just sign those checks.
Ing to The Knot, which is a popular wedding planning website, you should be spending anywhere from $75-$100 on a wedding gift for a co-worker, distant friend, or even acquaintance. For close friends and family, a wedding gift should be anywhere from $100-$125.
Should you wish to honor us with a gift, a contribution towards our future together would be sincerely appreciated. As we embark on this incredible journey together, your love and support mean the world to us. If you'd like to contribute to our dreams, a monetary gift would be cherished as we build our life together.
Use ``or'' - if you use ``and'' both people have to sign it for it to be deposited. Not only is it easier on the couple but, that way, if you do get the bride's last name wrong because of name changing issues, it won't matter. Groom can just sign those checks.