You can go to Family Court for a court order for child support from the other parent. Support, Adult Dependent (Developmentally Disabled).The Law Department assists local and out-of-state custodial parents in establishing an order of support from non-custodial parents. If there is a child of the marriage, the noncustodial parent can expect to pay child support to the custodial parent in the case of divorce. Note: Do not fill out this IWO if a party is already receiving child support services or wishes to apply at this time. OCSS services include assistance with locating noncustodial parents, establishing parentage, establishing child support and medical support orders. Child support payments do not trigger tax consequences for either spouse. The best way to avoid paying alimony in the event of a divorce is to sign a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement. 1. You will have to file for separation and then ultimately divorce; 2. If your ex learns that you are remarried, they may wish to modify their alimony and child support obligations.