ENGAGEMENT PARTY The groom's father will give a toast following the father of the bride. After these first two toasts, the floor is open to anyone, but usually the best man and maid (or matron) of honor, if already chosen, are next. Then, other family members and friends can follow.
Short and sweet is the name of the game here: Both Lovelace and Franklin agree that an engagement party speech should be no longer than two minutes.
Unlike a wedding speech, which could be as long as 10 minutes (or more, depending on the speaker) an engagement party speech is usually far shorter. Generally, you wouldn't want to speak for more than a couple of minutes so you can save most of what you have to say for the wedding itself.
ENGAGEMENT PARTY The groom's father will give a toast following the father of the bride. After these first two toasts, the floor is open to anyone, but usually the best man and maid (or matron) of honor, if already chosen, are next. Then, other family members and friends can follow.
(relationship with the groom) - representing the groom's family, I wish all the elders, siblings, and grandchildren abundant health and happiness. We are gathered here today to celebrate the joy and happiness of... (groom's name) and ... (bride's name)'s wedding ceremony.
Set a start and end time, so engagement party guests know when to arrive and depart, typically a two to four-hour window.
We suggest you avoid long stories and stick to the key points that are: Thanking people for coming and their love / generosity / warmth. Mentioning anyone who has made this possible. Explain how happy it has made you. And illustrate why – your wonderful husband / wife. Try not to make this too slushy. Raise a toast.
Introduce yourself and how you know the couple. Congratulate the couple and how excited and happy you are for them. Share something personal, such as an anecdote. This is a great opportunity to be funny, but keep things as positive as you can.
We suggest you avoid long stories and stick to the key points that are: Thanking people for coming and their love / generosity / warmth. Mentioning anyone who has made this possible. Explain how happy it has made you. And illustrate why – your wonderful husband / wife. Try not to make this too slushy. Raise a toast.
Here are the 4-steps to writing your next opening script fast. Step 1: Welcome… The Gateway To Your Introduction. Step 2: Appreciation… ... Step 3: Visualization… Clarify the Theme/Purpose of The Event and Set the Stage. Step 4: Exit… Transition From Your Opening Speech with Passion and Purpose.