If they don't respond, the court will proceed with the divorce without requiring any further input from your spouse. If your spouse does respond, things can get heated and drag out, but you will have the court behind you to keep the process moving.
Typically the Judge will dismiss the case if neither party shows up. However, the Judge may have also continued the case, so your case may still be active. Most likely your case is still active because the initial court appearance is a 30 day status conference.
These forms can typically be found on the Virginia Judiciary's website or obtained from the local court clerk's office. File the Complaint: File the Complaint for Divorce with the circuit court clerk in the county or city where either you or your spouse live.
In the US you generally don't need consent to get a divorce. If one person refuses to cooperate, the judge will order them to. If they still refuse, the judge could find them in contempt, or they could order the divorce granted based on the information provided by the plaintiff.
Ing to a 2019 survey conducted by Martindale-Nolo Research, contested divorces take at least 18 months to finalize in California.
An uncontested divorce can be wrapped up as quickly as six weeks to three months.
If the spouse does not respond, eventually the courts will assume the non-petitioning spouse agrees to everything including the property division and grant the divorce. Just as well, if that spouse refuses to divorce decree, eventually the courts will grant the divorce anyway.
The VS-4 form is a statistical form that must be provided before a divorce can be finalized. This form requires basic information about the client such as their date of birth, education level, and each spouse's address. After the form is endorsed, it is used for statistical purposes by the state.
In Virginia, you get divorced in one of two ways: either you enter into a signed separation agreement and then proceed with an uncontested divorce, or (2) you go to trial, and the judge enters the divorce. If you don't have an agreement, you'll either have to get one, or you'll have to go through the whole trial.