Get Proverbs 31 Man

A good man is hard to find. His wife trusts him without reserve and never has reason to regret it. Never spiteful, he showers blessings on his wife and family all life long. He enjoys his work, but doesn't let it possess him, and pursues a meaningful vocational existence.

What does this mean for our Proverbs 31 man? It means, counterintuitively, that he serves his wife's calling best when he gives himself to a big calling of his own. If a man has only a small vision — not only in his work but in his family, church, and community — then he needs only small assistance from his wife.

What Is the Meaning of a Proverbs 31 Woman? Commentary from the ESV Study Bible regarding Proverbs 31 tells us that the ideal woman is virtuous, strong, and selfless. She does not wait to be served but rises early, even before sunrise, to delegate tasks and engage in business.

Proverbs 12:4 – “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones.” Marriage is a life-long covenant between a man and a woman to live as one flesh, for their mutual benefit, and for the bearing of children.

A good man obtains favor from the LORD, but the LORD condemns a crafty man. A man cannot be established through wickedness, but the righteous cannot be uprooted. A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but a disgraceful wife is like decay in his bones.

“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1, KJV. Bible verses about marriage and love make it clear that husbands should respect their wives and vice versa. When conflict arises, use “soft” answers and responses to avoid angry fights and harsh rebukes.

A simple man believes anything, but a prudent man gives thought to his steps. A wise man fears the LORD and shuns evil, but a fool is hotheaded and reckless. A quick-tempered man does foolish things, and a crafty man is hated.