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Follow up about a specific event or activity they mentioned during the date. If the person mentions a class they're taking or a huge presentation at work that week, text them to ask how it went. "Showing interest in the person signals interest and real curiosity about getting to know them," says Dr. O'Neal.

Ask them to do something specific. If they have a favorite restaurant, take them there. If there's something they've always wanted to do, bring them on an excursion to do that thing. The key is to tailor the date to them and make the activity specific. Just asking them to "hang out sometime" is a bit too vague.

You can text something such as: "Can't wait to see you tomorrow night." "Looking forward to dinner tomorrow night." "Checking in to make sure we're still on for tomorrow night."

Texting Before the First Date: 15 Rules to Make Them Eager to See... Keep the plan simple. Don't talk too much. Checking in. No sexting. Indirectly text an hour before. Tell 30-40% or less. Don't psychoanalyze the person over text. Don't pretend.

How to Flirt After the First Date 1 “Just popping in to say thanks for such an amazing time tonight. ... 2 “I just got back home, but I wish I was still with you! ... 3 “Seeing you definitely made my entire week 🥰” 4 “I would have talked to you all night long if I could.” 5 “BTW you looked amazing tonight 😊”

Messaging to make plans Hey, are you free on Saturday? Do you want to do something? I'm busy on Saturday, but how about Sunday? Sure! ... What are you thinking? How about a drive out to the beach? ... Sounds good! ... I can pick you up from your place about 9 if you like. I'm going to the gym first thing in the morning.

Short and simple is the best way for you to say what you need to say. Try something like, “I like you. Let's hang out sometime!” or, “I wanted to tell you that I have a crush on you. No pressure or anything.