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If you are asking within the bounds of personal relations, to discard is to reject someone or to toss them aside. Get rid of them. Treat them as trash. A breakup is the state of ending a relationship, usually an intimate one.

During the discard phase, the narcissist may drop the façade of being a charming, loving, and caring person. They might become increasingly aggressive towards you, showing their true vindictive and hostile colors. You might blame yourself and try everything you can to make things go back to how they used to be.

Discard/Rejection: When the narcissist gets bored or decides the person is no longer useful enough to them, they'll often end the relationship and 'discard' the person. Sometimes, this ending is final. Other times, a narcissist will use hoovering to lure the person back into the relationship and repeat the cycle.

Narcissistic relationships generally follow predictable patterns, and the breakup is referred to as the “discard,” the dictionary definition of which is “getting rid of someone or something no longer useful or desirable.”

As a result, their charming, charismatic, confident, and articulate personality begins to disintegrate and they are left feeling unlovable, undesirable, inadequate, worthless, and weak. This is why discarding a narcissist makes them feel rejected, humiliated, and abandoned.

If a narcissist has discarded you, it usually means they have cut you out of their life (at least for the time being). Thus, they are unlikely to notice that you are ignoring them. However, they may not have discarded you entirely and are keeping you on the sidelines in case they need some supply.

As a general rule, narcissists will come back after discarding you. But sadly, this isn't because they love, care about, or miss you.