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There is no "should." People often look for rules to tell them what to do when they feel vulnerable, uncertain, insecure, or afraid, but there are no rules to tell you how far in advance you're "supposed" to schedule a date.

So, let's say you are dating a man you really like, and he calls you and sees you consistently. Then after the 4th or 5th date, you can suggest something or ask to get together. Just keep your initiation on a ratio.

Instead, be clear, concise, and articulate what you want ? a date with her. For example: "I'd like to take you out so we can get to know each other better." Don't be forceful. Avoid telling her what she should do or what she'll be missing if she does not go out with you.

The three-date rule roughly dates back to the early '90s. It states that if you are seeing someone new, you should wait for a third date before having sex with them (Remember what Carrie Bradshaw and her friends say in Sex and the City?).

Start With the Basics. Janina Steinmetz / Getty Images. ... Talk About Where You're From. ... Delve Into Preferences. ... Discuss Your Favorite Movies, TV Shows, and Books. ... Open Up About Your Hobbies. ... Have a Conversation About Travel. ... Discuss Your Favorite Music. ... Chat About Your Ambitions.

Guys in the real world like it when you make the first move. I know because I asked. ?I've always found myself attracted to women who are friendly enough to strike up conversation and confident enough to express interest,? says Miles Davis, a restaurateur in Washington.

How to Set Up a Date over Text 1 Send an opening text. 2 Find out what they like. 3 Get to know their schedule. 4 Keep your text short and simple. 5 Ask them to do something specific. 6 Give them dates and times to choose from. 7 Be chill if they say ?yes.? 8 Give them any additional details.