Sample Parent Conference

Use I messages. They will help you speak honestly about your feelings without placing blame on the parent. Use examples from observations during the day. Ask if there have been any recent changes at home. Emphasize the positive.

Parents are largely responsible for their children's behaviour.It is more helpful to encourage parents to identify areas in which they are struggling to manage their children's behaviour and motivate them to set appropriate boundaries.

When planning what to say at parent teacher conferences, prepare a way to end on a positive note. You could tell why you love having the child in your class, highlight an overall strength, or a special connection you have with the child. Here's what it might sound like: It's so fun having Toby in my class!

Stick to the facts. Present a we're on the same side approach by focusing on a shared commitment to children's safety, and emphasizing that you want what is safest for all children. Share your feelings. Include the positive. Be prepared to provide the parent with resources for help and information.

1 List Specific Behaviors. A letter to parents should describe the specific behaviors in a factual and objective way. 2 Explain Next Steps. The parents will want to know how the problem was dealt with and what you plan to do next. 3 Call to Action. 4 Share Positives.

Tell them they can use it as a resource to build on the strengths the child already has, he said. Considering the emotion surrounding the topic, and to avoid alienating parents or heightening their anxiety, Fitton, Rispoli and Snyder advise approaching the undertaking with sensitivity.

Have realistic behavior expectations and ideally before school starts, at an open house or parent meeting share those expectations with the parents. Create a relationship with parents based on teamwork from day one. Lead with love.