New Hampshire Mediation

There are essentially 5 steps to a successful mediation. They are comprised of the introduction; statement of the problem; information gathering; identification of the problems; bargaining; and finally, settlement.

Mediation sessions usually begin with the introduction of the mediator to the two parties.The mediator will then explain the role of the mediator -- to be an impartial facilitator, not an advocate or judge of either party, and to assist the parties in arriving at their own solutions.

Rule 1: The decision makers must participate. Rule 2: The important documents must be physically present. Rule 3: Be right, but only to a point. Rule 4: Build a deal. Rule 5: Treat the other party with respect. Rule 6: Be persuasive. Rule 7: Focus on interests. Rule 8: Be a problem solver for interests.

There are essentially 5 steps to a successful mediation. They are comprised of the introduction; statement of the problem; information gathering; identification of the problems; bargaining; and finally, settlement.

Don't rule out all opening statements because you have had bad experiences with them before. Think about whether there is anything either side could say that would be productive. Avoid saying alienating things, and say difficult things in the least alienating way possible.

Mediation sessions usually last 2-3 hours. Sometimes issues can be resolved in a single session; sometimes additional sessions are needed.

Planning. Mediator's introduction. Opening remarks. Joint discussion. Caucuses. Negotiation. What do you think is most valuable to the mediation process?

Planning. Before the mediation process begins, the mediator helps the parties decide where they should meet and who should be present. Mediator's introduction. Opening remarks. Joint discussion. Caucuses. Negotiation.